Learning to parent…

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We attend conferences for all kinds of reasons…  from training for leadership, to effective communication, to growing in discipleship, or for spiritual renewal or refreshment etc.

But this is the first time I’m attending a Family Education Conference.. one that intentionally ‘teaches’ and tutors us to be ‘better’ parents. And boy, there’s sooo much to learn.
And YES, we can be trained to become the kind of parents God wants us to be… =)

While the content of this conference has been mostly about exploring education options for our kids… but because most of the instructors and presenters are parents themselves.. their journeys in parenting (thru joy & pains) come through readily in their sharing & messages. And it has challenged me tremendously to consider once again the awesome task of raising the kids God has given me.

God has awesome plans & purposes for Josh, Emily & Zach, and he has chosen to place them in our care… So we as parents have the privilege to ‘partner with God’ in helping them ‘flesh’ out this purpose in their lives. We are essentially raising adults..  We have to keep the end-goal in view.. otherwise we can easily lose sight! =)

So much I’d love to share.. but perhaps will leave for another time.

Lil & I are soakin’ it all in… treasuring this special opportunity to grow & learn as parents. Truth is, we feel totally inadequate… which in some ways (as I’m reminded) is a good thing.. cos’ then we really recognize our desparate need for God, and His empowering and leading in our lives & in parenting. =)

So much going on…

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Much has been happening our family the past few months…here’s a quick summary!

Lil’s mom has been staying with us off and on, since my father-in-law’s passing in November. The adjustment has been much better than I expected.. praise God!

ForeRunner’s latest artiste will go ‘on the road’ in a couple of days, with it’s 1st evangelistic concert at NUS this Wednesday! Click here for more details

We are headed to ChiangMai, Thailand for a week (fr Feb 5th to 12th)… for a homeschooling conference, and family holiday. Since January, Lil has been homeschooling Josh. It’s been quite an adventure. You can read her stories at http://lilcoolmom.multiply.com
pray for us to have a fruitful time of learning as well as relaxing family time.

And LATEST NEWS! Lil’s mom’s flat got gutted by fire today…. =(   cause of fire unknown, but we thank God she’s safe. The whole kitchen is gone tho’ – we just saw the 10pm Chinese news, and saw that the kitchen and actually the whole apartment was all black!
she had gone home to do some cleaning, and was actually preparing to remove & ‘sell’ away all her idols…

Pray for Lil’s brothers & family… as they help with the clean up. Pray also that the insurance can cover most of the loss.